董薇老师:您好!我岳母今年78岁了,半年前因为身体原因从老家搬来与我们同住。我和爱人结婚二十多年来一直与她的家人相处很融洽,和岳母的感情也是形同母子。可是自从她搬来我家之后,我们之间就摩擦不断,主要原因是她经常疑神疑鬼。她几次跟我说邻居瞧不起她是小地方来的,背后讲她坏话。前段时间几个同事来家里做客,可能是一位同事没听见她打招呼,她就跟我爱人哭诉说一定是我在同事面前讲了她的坏话,让别人瞧不 Dong Wei Teacher: Hello! My mother-in-law is 78 years old this year and moved with us from her home for six months because of her physical reasons. My wife and I married more than 20 years has been getting along with her family is very harmonious, and her mother’s feelings are also the same mother and child. But since she moved to my house, there has been friction between us, mainly because she is often suspicious. She told me a few times that the neighbor looked down upon her as a small place, and she told her bad things about her. A few colleagues ago to come home to visit a guest, may be a colleague did not hear her say hello, she told my beloved cry I must say in front of my colleagues told her the bad language, so that others do not see