女儿赴美留学已经两年了。阔别早思念使我经常想起她。尤其当我看到女孩子扯着母亲的手扭着身子撒娇,我眼前便闪现女儿小时的节节幕幕,一种愧疚的自责之情便油然而生……女儿没有拥有如今女孩的那种幸福童年。有点年纪的人都知道七十年代双职工家庭是怎样紧张的生活节奏。我们在繁忙的工作和名目繁多的政治学习中疲于奔命。为了准时参加晚上的政治学习,我女儿8岁就开始帮我烧饭,她不知道水该放到哪里,我淘好了米就将二粒米粘附在锅壁上做记号。她放学回家便打开封着的煤炉,按记号加上水,将饭做好。待我回家、只要炒两个菜吃完便可赶回单位参加“政治学习”了。有一天,我走到 It’s been two years since my daughter went to the United States to study. I do not think I often miss her. Especially when I saw the girl pulling the mother’s hand and twisting her body coquetry, my eyes flashing the curtain of her daughter’s hour, a sense of guilt self-blame arises spontaneously ... daughter did not have today’s girl that A happy childhood. A bit older people know how tense life rhythms the two-family members of the seventies had. We are struggling with our busy work and a myriad of political studies. In order to participate in the evening political study on time, my daughter started cooking for me at the age of 8. She did not know where to put the water. After she returned home from school, she opened the sealed coal stove, added water according to the mark, and cooked the rice well. When I go home, as long as the two fried dishes can be finished eating back to participate in “political learning.” One day, I came