Q我单位有一次因为有上级领导来视察工作,要求全体员工那几天上班统一穿正装,谁没有正装自己要去买,没穿正装上班的一律不能进单位。行政总监亲自在门口把门,没穿的人真就被拦在了门外。我把这事讲给我先生听,他说我和我单位的人都太窝囊、太怂包,为了挣钱低声下气,丢掉颜面和自尊,这种情况该立马走人,不伺候他了。但我的理解是,大家各有各的家庭和情况,都有要负担的责任和重担,即使不公也会忍下。我觉得这样不算是丢失自尊,反而这样为了家庭和责任能忍耐才是真的有益的自尊。不 Q My unit once because of the superior leadership to inspect the work, require all employees to wear a uniform that day to work uniform, who did not dress themselves to buy, did not wear formal wear to work will not be able to enter the unit. The chief executive in person at the door to the door, did not wear people really stopped at the door. I told this to my husband. He said that I and my unit are both too blatant, too conscientious, in order to earn money under the hood, losing face and self-esteem, this situation should leave immediately, do not serve him. However, my understanding is that every family and every family member has responsibilities and burdens to be borne, even if it is unfair. I think this is not a loss of self-esteem, but for the family and responsibility to be patient is really useful self-esteem. Do not