男人和女人因没有警觉彼此应该有所不同,因此纷争不断。由于忘记彼此不同的重要事实,我们常对异性生气或失望,我们期待异性和我们相像,希望他们要我们所要的,及以我们的方式去感受。 男人错误地期待女人要以男人的方式思考、沟通、反应;女人也错误地期待男人要以女人的方式去感觉、沟通、反应。我们都忘了男人和女人应该是不同的。结果我们的关系充满了不必要的摩擦与冲突。 Men and women are constantly discredited because they are not aware of each other. We often become angry or disappointed with the opposite sex by forgetting the important facts that are different from each other. We expect the opposite sex to be similar to ours and hope they want what we want and feel in our own way. Men mistakenly expect a woman to think, communicate and react in a man’s way. Women mistakenly expect men to feel, communicate and react in a woman’s way. We all forget that men and women should be different. As a result, our relationship is full of unnecessary friction and conflict.