通过报纸、电视、网络等媒体,我们经常看到一些关于小学生令人揪心的新闻,如有的学生受到老师批评或考试失败而自杀;有的学生受到家长责骂而离家出走。这些小孩子,本该天真烂漫、朝气蓬勃,愉悦地学习、尽情地玩耍,可他们却因受到一点点挫折就陷入了重重心理困境中。出现这些情况不仅与老师或家长教育方法不当有关,也说明了这些孩子缺乏应对挫折的心理能力。小学生正处在身心发展的重要时期,具有很强的可塑性。父母是陪伴孩子一生的老师,家庭教育具有长期性、全 Through newspapers, television, the Internet and other media, we often see some disturbing news about primary school students who commit suicide if some students are criticized by the teachers or the exam fails. Some students are scolded by their parents and run away from home. These children, naive, energetic, delightful to learn and enjoy playing, but they suffered a lot of psychological distress due to a little frustration. The occurrence of these conditions is not only related to improper education of teachers or parents, but also shows that these children lack the psychological ability to cope with setbacks. Pupils are in an important period of physical and mental development, has a strong plasticity. Parents are the teachers who accompany their children’s life. Family education has a long-term nature