伴随着社会的发展,人们的生活水平日益提高。在物质追求与精神追求相伴同步提高的同时,人们对后代的家庭教育却出现了单一的形式,那就是百般溺爱,对小孩的要求有求必应,要什么给什么,即使不要,也怕比别人家的孩子差,吃、穿、玩都在攀比着消费。在当代的中小学生中,就自然出现了家庭教育的空白,那就是家庭教育中的挫折教育。家长只养不教,却希望学校教育,往往在学校教育中,孩子出现了小小的挫折,个别的家长找到学校大吵大闹,这样又怎能让孩子成才 With the development of society, people’s living standards are increasing day by day. At the same time that the pursuit of material and the pursuit of spirituality are simultaneously enhanced, there is a single form of family education for future generations, that is, spoiled for every possible purpose. They must be responsive to the demands of their children and what should be given to them. If not, they are also afraid of others Children are poor, eat, wear, play in the comparisons of consumption. In contemporary primary and middle school students, it naturally appears the gap of family education, that is, frustration education in family education. Parents only do not teach, but hope that school education, often in school education, the child appeared a small setbacks, individual parents find the school noisy, so how can children succeed