无意间在刚上大学的女儿书包里,发现了避孕套,我气愤不已地责问她,她却说她已经成人,读高中时,就有很多女生都有过性行为!尽管女儿说,还没和男友发生亲密行为,可我却不相信,更担心大学四年,她全身心沉浸在爱情里荒废了学业。我该怎么办?一个刚上大学的女孩说自己“已经成人了”并没有错。但把“可以有性行为”和“成人”画等号,却是不妥当的。她随身携带避孕套,说“班上有很多女生都有过性行为”的同时,又表明自己和男友没性行为,可能哪个家长都不会相信。 Inadvertently found a condom in her college bag, and I blamed her indignantly. She said she was an adult. Many girls had had sex when they were in high school. Although her daughter said that she has not Intimate boyfriend occurred, but I do not believe, but worried about college for four years, she was immersed in love, abandoned school. What should I do? A girl who just went to college said she was “already grown up” and there was nothing wrong with it. However, it is not appropriate to draw an equal sign for “can have sex” and “adult”. She carries condoms with her and says, “Many girls in the class have had sexual intercourse,” and at the same time shows that they are not sexually active with their boyfriends. Parents may not believe them.