本文记录了笔者抱着耐心宽容的态度,利用三个方面的力量来转变空巢生的过程。首先,在日常生活中让空巢生时刻感受到老师的关心和理解。其次,利用学生的自尊心激发学生学习的动力。最后,通过一次主题班会利用学生的力量,让他们感受到友谊,感到不愿离开朋友,为了朋友而努力。在老师和同学的努力下,该生顺利的拿到了大专文凭。 This article records the author’s patience and tolerance, using three aspects of the power to change the process of empty nest. First of all, letting empty nests feel the concern and understanding of teachers in everyday life. Second, using the self-esteem of students to motivate students to learn. Finally, through a theme class will use the power of students so that they feel the friendship, feel reluctant to leave friends, work hard for friends. Under the efforts of teachers and classmates, the student got a diploma successfully.