邻居家的小琳是个要强的女孩子,小学里当过少先队大队委员,但是,到了初中三年级了,既没有当上班干部,也没有加入共青团;她闷闷不乐地坐在窗下抹眼泪,她父母跟我说:“她崇拜作家,你帮我们说说她吧。”叫我说什么好呢?我帮她分析原因。原来,她考上的初中,是一所重点中学,各所小学的尖子集中到一起,她就显得不那么突出了。从一个优等生变成班里的普通生,对孩子来说不啻是一种挫折,造成了她的强烈的失落感,茫然 Little Lin, a neighbor, was a stronger girl and had fewer members of the Pioneer Brigade in her primary school. However, she came to the third grade of junior high school and neither worked as a cadre on duty nor joined the Communist Youth League. She sat sullenly under the window and wiped her tears Tell me: “She worshiped the writer and told us about her.” What did you say to me? I helped her analyze the reason. It turned out that she admitted to junior high school, is a key middle school, all primary school alumni together, she does not seem so prominent. Changing from a top student to a normal student in a class is a setback to a child, causing her a strong sense of loss and loss