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有人说当今中国大部分家庭是凑合着过。这话虽略有偏激,但也不无道理。根据多年心理健康咨询工作所掌握的情况看,所谓凑合型家庭确也不少。这种家庭的稳定性均建立在对孩子的责任感、社会道德舆论、个人面子等因素的基础上。因此其稳定性的基础是极其脆弱的,一旦一方遇到了合适的人选,必然会出现“离心现象”,维系原有家庭表面稳定性的基础就会动摇。两头燃烧的蜡烛终究要危及中心的。 当然,让所有凑合型家庭都解体显然不是解决问题的好办法,关键是要分析导致这种情况的症结所在,以便对
Some people say that most Chinese families today make do with it. Although these words are slightly extreme, but it is not unreasonable. According to many years of psychological health consulting work to grasp the situation, the so-called improvised family indeed a lot. The stability of this family are based on the child’s sense of responsibility, social morality and public opinion, personal face and other factors. Therefore, the basis of its stability is extremely fragile. Once a party encounters a suitable candidate, it is bound to appear “centrifugal phenomenon”, and the foundation for maintaining the original family’s surface stability will be shaken. After all, two burning candles endanger the center. Of course, it is obviously not a good solution to the problem of disengaging all improvised families. The key is to analyze the crux of the situation so that