一个人行事而不给他人招致痛苦,则合君子之义,这话既不失为雅正,而且就其实质而言也不为不确切。所谓君子,即在他能注意为他周围的人解除其行动障碍,使之办事免受拘牵;而他在这类事上是重同情,而不重参与。他所能给予的帮助也多少带有这种性质,正像在安排人们起居时,尽量做到令人舒适;仿佛安乐椅能为人解乏和一团炉火能为人祛寒;虽说没有这些,自然仍能予人以其他恢复与 It is neither imprecise nor imprecise in substance for a man to act without inflicting pain on others, in the sense of being a gentleman. The so-called gentleman, that is, he can pay attention to relieve the obstacles of his actions for the people around him and keep them from detention; and he is a kind of sympathetic thing in this kind of matter, without participating heavily. How much help he can give is of this nature, just as comfortably as possible when arranging people’s daily lives; as if the easel would be enough to relieve the heat of the human body and the heat of the fire; though without them, Can give others to restore and