新战士常见的心理挫折一是独立成人的挫折。新战士身体发育已渐成熟,心理上有了“成人感”。由于身体的成人化,便表现出强烈的独立愿望并十分关心自己的个性成长。但事实上他们尚未具备独立成人的能力。无论是经济上、还是对复杂社会的生活体验方面,都对家庭和部队有一定的依赖感,其强烈的独立成人愿望与不够成熟的独立能力的矛盾使得内心受挫,在挫折伴随中成长。 The common psychological setbacks for new fighters are the setbacks of independent adults. The new soldiers have gradually matured body development, psychologically with a “sense of adult.” Due to the body’s adultization, they showed a strong independent desire and are very concerned about their personal growth. But in fact they do not yet have the ability to become independent adults. Both in the economy and in the life experiences of the complex society have a certain sense of dependency on the family and the armed forces. The conflict between their strong desire for independence and the maturity of their independence make their hearts frustrated and grows with frustration.