“二十多年前,我怀中抱着刚刚出生的大女儿。她被裹在一条柔软的黄毛毯中,我数着她的手指,为她那小小的身躯赞叹着……我看着她,爱恋着,惊叹着;同时,心中立刻涌起另一种情感恐惧。‘我在干什么?’我问自己,‘我根本不知道怎样做父亲!’”——麦道卫曾经的心语 “Twenty years ago, I was pregnant with the newly born eldest daughter, wrapped in a soft yellow blanket, counting my fingers and marveling at her little body ... I see At the same time, another kind of emotional fear immediately filled my heart. ’What am I doing?’ I asked myself, ’I do not know how to be a father!’ ”- Heart language