中小学生的情绪在成长过程中,总有一段时间处于与父母敌对的状态,这时他们想自己打工,想出走、想实现自己的梦想、想通过自己的努力表明自己不简单等等,在某种意义上,孩子也是为了让父母相信自己,因此把这种情绪看做洪水猛兽其实也是不必要的。学会处理好学生这种情绪化的反应,是班主任的一项基本功,也是家校沟通与合作的重要内容。处在少年期的学生,他们的“自我观察意向、怕羞心理、自我中心主义等有所加强,‘自 Primary and middle school students’ emotions are always in a state of hostility with their parents for some time during their growth. At this moment, they want to work on their own, seek to leave, want to realize their dreams, and want to demonstrate their own simplicity through their own efforts. In a sense, children also try to convince their parents that it is not necessary to treat this emotion as a scourge. To learn how to deal with this emotional reaction of students is one of the basic skills of a teacher in charge of a class and an important part of communication and cooperation between home and school. Students in adolescence, their ”self-observation intention, shy psychology, egocentrism and so on have been strengthened, since