做节目或者读者咨询的时候,常常会遇见一个比头还大的问题:“女的结婚前,你有没有言简意赅的忠告?”我常常会有刹那的语塞。问题太大了,还要一句两句说完,真的比结婚还难。问多了,我也学会了概括,无非是下面5条良心建议,虽不可能涵盖全面,但是我觉得受用,实诚——一是“他爱你”要比“你爱他”多一些。 When doing a program or a reader’s consultation, you often encounter a bigger problem: “Do you have a concise advice before getting married?” I often have a flash of words. The problem is too big, but also sentence after sentence, really harder than marriage. More to ask, I also learned to summarize, nothing more than the following five suggestions of conscience, although it is impossible to cover a comprehensive, but I feel that by accepting, sincere - first, “he loves you” than “you love him” a bit more.