就在这样一个有众多机缘累积的时代,我们大多都对自己的命运无能为力,一如在后来我遭遇的许多人一样,他们无可避免地谈到自己的境遇如何如何之坏,自己的遭逢如何如何之苦,但我却对即将遭遇到的一切满怀信心。不是我对自己的未来盲目乐观,而是我在看过许多智者和长者的言谈之后作出的冷静判断。写下这样一个题目,我不是想说一个爱情故事,也不是想将一个让人感觉小资气息浓烈的伪心命题付诸于文。我只是想讲述这样一个孩子的成长过程。 In such an era with many opportunities to accumulate, most of us are powerless to our destiny. Just as many people I encountered later, they inevitably talked about how their situation is bad and how their own How hard it is, but I’m full of confidence in what will happen. It’s not that I’m blindly optimistic about my own future. It’s that I’ve seen calm judgments after reading the speeches of many wise men and elders. To write such a topic, I didn’t mean to say a love story, nor did I want to put a false proposition that makes petty bourgeoisie into full force. I just want to tell about the growth of such a child.