父母不能改变孩子眼睛的颜色,却可以将温馨怜爱的目光赐给他们。父母不能用物质使孩子得到安全感,但可以用充满爱的双手环抱他们。孩子内心深处极需要安全,对事物要有脚踏实地的把握。当孩子面对不熟悉的环境时,他就会害怕。如果一个孩子没有得到他最基本需要的安全感,他八岁便会在糖果店偷东西。聪明的父母必须建立子女的安全感,并除去造成缺乏安全感的情况。 Parents can not change the color of their children’s eyes, but they can give their warm and loving eyes. Parents can not use substances to make their children feel safe, but can embrace them with hands full of love. Deep inside the child very much in need of safety, things have a down-to-earth grasp. When children face unfamiliar environment, he will be afraid. If a child does not receive the basic sense of security he needs, he will steal at the age of eight. Clever parents must create a sense of security for their children and remove the lack of security.