有一个小男孩想在自家院子里栽一棵小树,他就去跟父亲商量。父亲非常支持他的想法儿,不过,他同时问了儿子一个问题:“你准备让这棵小树长成什么样子呢?”“它愿意长成什么样就长成什么样呗!我怎么知道它将来的样子?”小男孩忽闪着眼睛想了一会儿说。“不对,每棵树都应该有自己的目标,如果你想让它长成参天大树,成为栋梁之才,就要及时清除主干上的侧枝,让它一心一意朝着蓝天生长;如果你想让它成为一棵造型奇特的观赏树,就要随时留意它新长出的每一根侧枝,并按照自己的要求选择清除和保留。”父亲抚摸若儿子的头说。“那就让它成为一棵栋梁之才吧!”儿子说,“我 A young boy wanted to plant a small tree in his own yard and he went to discuss with his father. His father supported his idea very much, but at the same time he asked his son one question: ”What is the way you are going to make the young tree grow?“ ”What kind of growth would it take? How do I know what it's like in the future? “The boy said for a moment with his eyes flashing. ”No, every tree should have its own goal. If you want to make it grow into towering trees and become pillars, you should promptly clear the side branches on the trunk and let it grow toward the blue sky wholeheartedly. If you want Let it be a peculiar ornamental tree, it is necessary to keep an eye on each of its newly grown side branches, and in accordance with their own choice to clear and retain. “Father stroked the son's head, said. ”Then let it become a pillar of it!“ Son said, ”me