周末请家乡的好友容姑娘来家里吃饭,她于澳大利亚读研归来后,选择了在上海工作,也有安家此处的长远打算。聊天时,听她抱怨目前被父母逼婚得厉害。我问她在澳大利亚怎么没谈一个?容姑娘说,父母投资了几百万让她在国外留学,如果因为恋爱而挂科,她会觉得特别内疚。当然,身边也有一些朋友难耐寂寞,甚至为了一张绿卡,不惜利用爱情来赌博,最后却学业、恋爱两头空。容姑娘看得越多,越不敢贸然恋爱。她说了两 Invited home girl friends to come home for dinner at the weekend, she returned to study in Australia, she chose to work in Shanghai, but also the home here long-term plan. When chatting, listen to her and complain that her parents are now forced to marry. I asked her why she had not talked about one in Australia. Ms Jung said her parents had invested millions in her to study abroad, and she would feel particularly guilty if she was caught up in love. Of course, there are also some friends around the impatient loneliness, and even for a green card, at the use of love to gamble, but finally academic, love both ends empty. Content girl see more, the more dare not rashly love. She said two