新学期开学,我认真观察了陪学生一起报名的家长与各教师之间的交流,并亲自和一些家长进行了交谈,从中感觉到不少家长不能正确、客观地看待和教育子女。他们对自己的子女都有一种过高的期望和要求,常常用邻居、同事的孩子的优点来要求自己的子女,严重地违背了教育孩子的规律,阻碍了学生的个性成长。教育的目的是培养人,培养有主体性的人,它是一种社会实践活动。现代社会需要的是具有主体性 In the new semester, I carefully observed the communication between parents and teachers who enrolled with the students. I personally talked with some parents. I feel that many parents can not see and educate their children correctly and objectively. They have an overly high expectation and demand for their own children. They often claim their children with the merits of their neighbors and colleagues, seriously violating the laws of educating their children and hindering the growth of students’ personalities. The purpose of education is to train people and cultivate subjective people. It is a kind of social practice. What modern society needs is subjectivity