基层军官婚后大多两地分居,夫妻别多聚少,每逢休假探亲,虽有“久别新婚”之乐,然而十天半月一过,却又感到平淡无味,时间再稍长些,还可能为一些家庭琐事拌嘴失和,弄得怏快不快。因此,军人假期生活应注意四点:一是军官本人要有快速的角色转换意识。一旦回到家就必经履行起丈夫(妻子)的义务和责任,尽可能主动的去营造一个让妻子(丈夫)满意的温暖的家庭气氛,多安慰、关心对方,少挑剔埋怨,使对方有一个舒畅的好心情。 Although most of the grass-roots officers and husband separated from each other after marriage, the husband and wife should gather more and pay less visits to relatives on holidays. Although the music of “long-awaited wedding ” was ten days and a half months later, they felt dull and timeless, It may also make people uncomfortable with some family chores. Therefore, the military holiday life should pay attention to four points: First, the officer himself must have a rapid sense of role conversion. Once returned home, they will fulfill their obligations and responsibilities as husbands (wives) and, as far as possible, take the initiative to create a warm family atmosphere that will satisfy their wives (husbands), give more comforts, care more about each other, less picky complaints and make each other have a Relaxed good mood.