一个良善的人,行事必然文明优雅。但,绝不能被自身的良善所绑架。对粗鄙粗俗粗野动点粗,并不意味着你就不优雅不文明不良善了。恰恰这样做,才让优雅有了骨,使文明有了某种坚硬感。否则,良善就会陷入柔弱,甚至是懦弱之中。一味地铺陈雅,就会失去对抗俗的能力。你不好意思,人家好意思,你的七寸就会袒露在那里。对方知道拿捏你,你不好意思张口,也不好意思还手,于是,就处处拿捏你。粗鄙就像一個恶棍,你跟恶棍玩客气 A good person, acting inevitably civilized and elegant. However, it must never be abducted by its own good. Crude crude rough crude point, does not mean that you are not elegant and uncivilized bad. Precisely because of this, only the elegance and the bones allow the civilization to have a sense of hardness. Otherwise, good will fall into weakness and even weakness. Ya blindly shop, you will lose the ability to resist the vulgar. You are embarrassed, people are embarrassed, your seven inches will be bare there. The other side knows that to handle you, you embarrassed mouth, I am sorry to fight back, so, it is right at your disposal. Roughness is like a villain, you’re kind with a villain