家长会临近,班上学生的表现突然变好了。私底下了解才知道,原来是学生怕家长,确切地说是怕老师在家长面前批评他们,为了不让老师在家长面前批评他们,赶紧亡羊补牢,个个都积极表现。一个学生既形象又生动地说:“家长会就跟第三者似的,破坏家庭和谐。”这话乍一听很幽默,细细体会,却隐藏着颇多感慨。学生怕家长、怕老师的原因是什么?除了学生自己没有表现好之外,也折射出老师与学生、老师与家长、学生与家长之间沟通的漏 Parents will be approaching. The performance of students in the class suddenly becomes better. When I learned privately, I realized that the students were afraid of their parents. To be exact, they feared that teachers would criticize them in front of their parents. In order not to allow teachers to criticize them in front of their parents, they quickly made up for their injuries and all of them actively performed. One student says vividly and vividly: “The parents’ meeting is just like a third person and destroys family harmony.” This is a very humorous and detailed experience, but it hides a lot of emotion. What are the reasons for students’ fear of parents and teachers? In addition to the fact that students do not perform well, they also reflect the leakage of communication between teachers and students, teachers and parents, and students and parents.