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北京市妇联家教研究会曾对北京市50余万中学生的家长做过一次1%抽样调查。在被调查的5747名家长中,“对孩子溺爱、有求必应”的家长占34.96%;“只要学习好,对孩子不要求其它的方面”的家长占11.35%,两项相加达到46.31%。说明有将近一半的中学生家长对孩子不能严格要求。而在小学生家长中,溺爱孩子的比例高达70%。溺爱会产生什么后果呢? 在心理咨询门诊,我接触过几百名被溺爱的孩子,母亲在其中扮演着重要的角色。仅举两例供读者分析研究。
The Beijing Women’s Federation Tutoring Research Association once conducted a 1% sample survey of parents of more than 500,000 middle school students in Beijing. Among the 5,747 parents surveyed, 34.96% of the parents who “spoiled their children and who responded”, 11.35% of the parents said “as long as they are well-educated and do not need other aspects of their children,” adding up 46.31%. Indicating that nearly half of the parents of high school students can not be strict with their children. In primary school parents, spoiled children as high as 70%. What are the consequences of spoiling? In counseling clinics, I have met hundreds of spoiled children, in which mothers play an important role. Just two cases for readers analysis.