“雁过留声,人过留名。”不管一个人如何标新立异,内心深处总还是希望能得到人们的认可。中国人讲究气节,尤为注重社会对于自己的评价,名誉和气节甚至高于生命。1935年,上海滩名噪一时的大明星阮玲玉因为谣言满天飞,不惜以自杀来自证清白,其留下的遗言便是“我不死不能明我冤”。不仅是艺人明星畏惧人言,就是权倾一时的达官贵人也害怕被人抨击名节有亏。 “Goose had left the sound, people have named. ” No matter how a man unconventional, deep down always want to get people’s approval. Chinese people pay attention to aura, with particular emphasis on the community for their own evaluation, reputation and integrity even higher than life. In 1935, the famous star on the beach, Ruan Lingyu, was rumored to be flying in spite of his own innocence. His last words left behind were “I can not kill me.” Not only celebrity celebrities afraid of words, that is, power of the moment dignitaries are also afraid to be attacked celebrity have a disadvantage.