当你拥有某种东西的时候,你觉得它是那样的平凡和微不足道,甚至为所欲为;当你失去某种东西的时候,你觉得它又是那样的伟大和举足轻重,甚至因为曾经拥有时的行为和奢侈,而感到悔恨。一个人从哇哇坠地到长大成人,是要经过漫长的岁月的。然而在这个漫长的岁月里,你是否觉得你过得无怨、无悔、无恨呢?不,我觉得不是过得那样平安,因为我失去了,我悔恨了。自从我有了记忆起,我就清楚地记得,我是怎样地折磨我的母亲。她对我很好,可是她对我越好,我就越是放肆,好象我做得是对的。自己长大了,在有些事里用不着叫她的时候,也要叫 When you have something, you think it is so ordinary and insignificant, even do whatever you want; when you lose something, you feel it is so great and important, even because of the behavior and Extravagant, but feel regret. It takes a long time for a person to fall from the ground to the adult. However, in this long period of time, do you feel that you have no grudges, no regrets, no hatred? No, I don’t think it’s safe to fly because I’m lost and I’m sorry. Since I had remembered, I have clearly remembered how I tortured my mother. She was very good to me, but the better she was to me, the more I let go, as if I were doing it right. When you grow up, when you don’t need to call her in some things, you have to call it.