治理国家要讲“文武之道”,一张一弛,对孩子的教育也应当劳逸结合,有教有乐。可是,现在不少家长“望子成龙”之心过切,孩子在校学习任务已经够繁重,回到家里唯恐孩子有一点闲暇,立即变着法儿加班加点。孩子想看会儿电视,家长伸手“啪”的关死;孩子想听会儿音乐,一声断喝,悠扬的音乐也嘎然而止;孩子想玩会儿变形金刚,也被一把夺过,直到弄得孩子兴趣索然地重又爬在书本上,才肯罢休。其实,这种做法是反科学的。文 To govern the country should talk about “civil and military way”, one by one relaxation, the education of children should also be combined with work and rest, teaching and enjoyment. However, nowadays many parents are over-cautious in their “wishful thinking.” Their task of learning at school is heavy enough. When they return home, they are afraid their children have a little leisure time, and they immediately work overtime. Children want to watch TV for a while, parents hand “snapped” off; children want to listen to music, cut off, melodious music also come to an end; children want to play Transformers for a while, has also been snatched until Confused child interest suddenly climbed again in the book, only willing to give up. In fact, this approach is anti-scientific. Text