家长要注意引导儿童青少年正确面对学习、生活中竞争的失败与挫折,培养他们健康的竞争心理。典型案例芳芳和梅梅是年级里出了名的“小歌星”。元旦、新年、教师节、国庆等各种庆祝活动中,她们经常同台演出。因为一起演出,她们的关系比其他同学间更亲密。可是,一切在上个月发生了变化。那天,班主任找到芳芳和梅梅说:“下周市里要举办青少年歌唱大赛,获奖的选手不但能参加全省演出,还能免费去香港迪斯尼乐园游玩!可是这次歌唱比赛,每个班只能选 Parents should pay attention to guide children and adolescents correctly face the failure of learning and life competition and setbacks to develop their healthy competitive psychology. A typical case of Fang Fang and Mei Mei is famous in the grade ”Little Singer “. New Year’s Day, New Year, Teacher’s Day, National Day and other celebrations, they often perform on the same stage. Because of their performances, their relationship is more intimate than their peers. However, everything changed last month. That day, the class teacher found Fangfang and Mei Mei said: ”The next week the city to hold youth singing contest, the winning athletes will not only be able to participate in the province’s performance, but also free to Hong Kong Disneyland to play! But this singing competition, each class Can only choose