孩子的天性不同,教育者所采取的教养方式就会有差异,要提升孩子的主动性,我们可以这样进行:1.理解孩子。每个孩子的个性不同,看得够多,便能了解孩子的行为是故意还是天性,因此,找专业人员评估是理解孩子的方式之一。2.设定符合孩子能力的目标。有的孩子需要经过提醒才能完成功课、整理书包,我们可以期待这个过程的时间缩短,但一定要符合孩子的能力,不要强人所难。 Children’s nature is different, educators have adopted the mode of education will be different, to enhance the child’s initiative, we can do this: 1. Understanding of children. Each child’s personality is different, see enough, you can understand the child’s behavior is intentional or nature, therefore, to find a professional assessment is one of the ways to understand children. Set goals that are in line with your child’s abilities. Some children need to be reminded to complete their homework, organize school bags, we can expect to shorten the process of time, but must be consistent with the ability of children, do not be hard-working.