在我们这个还有着很多封建色彩的社会,单身——以独立个体形式生存,是一种非大众化的生活方式。所以一个男大未娶女大未嫁的单身者,尽管他(她)无锋芒外露,以最普通的角色与芸芸众生一样朝起暮寝,却在这个以婚姻为社会结构的环境中,引起了人们无休止的好奇、关注、不解、猜测。身为单身者,在这众人瞩目之下走他(她)们的人生之路,确有一种哭笑不得的无可奈何。如果《圣经》传说中解救了洪灾中人类的“诺亚方舟”再现,我多么希望和我的单身朋友们,一同乘上它,荡浆前行……——摘自一个单身女性的手记 In our society, which still has many feudal colors, being single - living as an independent individual is a non-popular way of life. Therefore, if a man does not marry a single woman who is not married to a woman, even though he or she does not have a sharp edge, she falls asleep in the most ordinary roles and mortal beings. However, in this environment where marriage is a social structure, People endless curiosity, attention, puzzled, speculation. As a single person, in this people’s attention to go him (her) their way of life, there is indeed a helpless dumbfounding. If the biblical legend saved the recurrence of the Noah’s Ark in the floods, how would I wish to take it with my bachelor friends and take the lead? ... - Excerpt from the book of a single woman