福冈有个小女孩叫阿花,妈妈得了癌症。阿花4岁,妈妈就开始教她做菜。她说:阿花,做饭这件事与生存息息相关,我要教会你如何拿刀,如何做家务。学习可以放在第二位,只要身体健康,能够自食其力,将来无论到哪,做什么,都能活下去。一年后,妈妈走了,5岁的阿花学会了做所有便当。爱她,就教会她独立。(张倩摘自新浪微博) Fukuoka there is a little girl called A flower, my mother got cancer. A flower 4 years old, my mother began teaching her to cook. She said: A flower, cooking this matter is closely linked with survival, I want to teach you how to take a knife, how to do housework. Learning can be placed second, as long as good health, able to make its own living, no matter where, what to do, can live. A year later, my mother left, 5-year-old Ah Hua learned to do all the lunch. Love her, teach her to be independent. (Zhang Qian from Sina microblogging)