人看自己是这样的近 ,似乎一切都看得清清楚楚。但是人要真正认识自己却又是那样难 ,似乎时而清楚时而模糊。老子曰 :“识人者智 ,自知者明。”只知彼、不知己 ,虽称得上是智者 ,但这算不上是明白的人。识人者不但要尽可能识他人 ,更应该充分地认识自我 ,清醒地了解自己。一、 People look at themselves as such, and everything seems to be seen clearly. But it is so difficult for people to truly understand themselves. It seems clear and sometimes blurred. Lao Tzu said: "You know the person and you know who you are. You only know him and you don’t know yourself. Although you can call it a wise person, it is not a clear person. The person who knows not only needs to know others as much as possible, but also should fully understand himself and clearly understand himself. one,