男朋友出轨了,这是他直截了当告诉我的。我们在开始恋爱的时候,就已经说明:如果任何一方出轨,就分手。在交往过程中,他无数次提过分手,理由有很多种,包括跟其他女人有暧昧,但那会儿我都不信。直到这次他坦白了一切,我才知道,原来他真的出轨了。他出轨的原因,是我身上的那道伤疤。那道伤疤的来历,我告诉过他:我和前男友在一起的时候,曾经意外怀孕,我做过宫外孕手术,后来因为前男友家里反对,我们便分手了。现在的男朋友常对我说,他跟我亲热的时候很难迈过去那个坎。就因为这个伤疤,他觉得心里很不平衡,然后就经不住诱惑和一个女人发生了一夜情。事后,他说给我一个月的时间,看我能不能原谅他。我身边的朋友没有一个人同意我原谅他。他们都说,男人出轨,有第一次,就会有第二次。当然,我家里的人也很不同意我们在一起。他学历不高,工作不稳定,我父母觉得我们不论从哪方面看都不般配。再加上现在他又出轨了,我家里人就更不同意了。但是我心里放不下他,如果这次原谅了他,他是不是从此就会专心对我了呢?——读者来信 Boy derailed, this is what he told me straightforward. When we started to fall in love, we already explained that if either party derailed, we broke up. During his contacts, he repeatedly mentioned breaking up for many reasons, including ambiguity with other women, but then I did not believe. Until this time he confessed everything, I realized that he really derailed. The reason for his derailment is the scar on my body. The history of that scar, I told him: When I was ex-boyfriend with her ex-boy, I had an unexpected pregnancy. I had an ectopic pregnancy and later broke up because of her ex-boyfriend’s opposition at home. Now my boyfriend often told me that he was very difficult when I was intimacy with that hurdle. Because of this scars, he felt very unbalanced in his heart, and then could not stand the temptation to have a one-night stand with a woman. Afterwards, he said to me a month’s time, see if I can forgive him. None of my friends around me agreed to forgive him. They all said that men derailed for the first time, there will be a second time. Of course, people in my family also disagree with us very much. He is not educated, work is not stable, my parents feel that no matter from which point we do not fit. Plus now that he is derailed again, my family even disagrees. But I could not let him out of my heart, if this time forgive him, he would not concentrate on me from then onwards? - Letters from readers