家教和家风的问题,说到底就是家庭教育的问题。在讲家庭教育之前,我想先提出一个问题:如今是全民教育的时代,是一个终身教育的时代,那么,家庭教育到底意味着什么?今天我们正处于一个信任社会化的阶段,大家都觉得,把孩子交给社会、交给越来越细分的专业学校,孩子可以到培训学校学英语,可以去上奥数,可以去学电脑、绘画、钢琴……每一样的专业技术越细分,家长越觉得孩子是可以被专业化的社会组装为一个合格的现代人才的。在这中间,家庭教育到底意味着什么呢? The issue of tutoring and family style is, after all, a matter of family education. Before we talk about family education, I would like to ask the first question: Nowadays it is an Era of education for all, an age of lifelong education. What then does family education mean? Today we are in a stage of socialization of trust, and everyone feels , The children to the community, to more and more subdivision of the professional schools, children can go to the training school to learn English, you can go to the Olympics, you can go to learn computer, painting, piano ... ... each kind of professional and technical breakdown, The more parents feel that children can be professionally assembled as a qualified modern talent. In the middle, what does family education really mean?