经常听到一些年轻的妈妈抱怨:“我家孩子太任性,越是不让做的事情他却越要做,真不知怎么办才好。”其实,孩子的这种任性首先是其心理发展特点的表现,其次是家长教育方式不当的反映。 幼儿期的孩子好奇心强,对周围的事物有浓厚的兴趣,喜欢探究,凡事都想摸摸碰碰、闻闻尝尝,但由于知识、经验贫乏,他们往往不知道哪儿有危险,什么事情不可以做,为什么不可以做。同时,幼儿期孩子独 Often heard some young mothers complain: “My child is too self-willed, the more things do not allow him to do more, I really do not know how to do it.” In fact, the child’s self-willed, first of all, is the characteristics of their psychological development Performance, followed by the parent education is an inappropriate reflection of the way. Early childhood children are curious, have a strong interest in the things around, like to explore, everything should touch and smell, but due to lack of knowledge, experience, they often do not know where is dangerous, what things Can not do, why can not do it. At the same time, early childhood children alone