心理学家埃里克森认为:“现代社会的青年是社会福利的受惠者,他们无虑地生活和享受,大大延迟了社会心理成熟的时间;而一旦独立,就希望立即补偿自身的价值,不愿意推迟自己应得到的社会心理补偿。如果得不到这些,便会牢骚满腹、对现实不满。”当代大学生也难免出现这种情形。他们中的许多人,在家里是父母的宠儿,在中小学是“特保儿”,在大众眼中是幸运儿。加之社会上人才供不应求的状况,从而大大提高了自我感觉的价值。常陶醉于一种似乎是不容置疑的优越感中,更多地看到的是自己的长处,而不能客观地认识和评价自己的不足。大学毕业生从学校走向社会,心理往往受到程度不同的冲击而失去 Psychologist Erickson said: “The youth in modern society are the beneficiaries of social welfare. They live and enjoy themselves without any thought and delay the social psychological maturity. When independence, they want to immediately compensate their own value , Do not want to postpone their social psychological compensation should be obtained.If you do not get it, you will complain, dissatisfaction with the reality. ”Contemporary college students are inevitable this situation. Many of them are parents’ darlings at home, being “special children” in primary and secondary schools and lucky in the eyes of the general public. Coupled with the shortage of social talent in the state, which greatly enhanced the value of self-feeling. Often intoxicated with a seemingly indisputable sense of superiority, more to see their strengths, but can not objectively recognize and evaluate their own deficiencies. University graduates from school to society, psychology is often affected by the impact of different degrees and lost