为人父母,不仅让我们感到幸福,也是我们与世界、与他人、与自我关系的一个本质性的变化。我们不只是孩子的向导,在往复循环的生活过程中,孩子也改变着我们的看法、行为和感受,让我们对自己笃定的事情产生怀疑。有时,这让我们不舒服,但总是大有裨益。让我们重新过一遍童年孩子宛如父母的一面自我之镜。正是在孩子身上,我们找到自己童年的伤。33岁的工作妈妈安娜,认为孩子是她最好的治疗师,养育孩子则是一次长程的心理治疗。“我知道为什么我想要一个孩子,我有一个灰色的童年,父母没有抚养我,我在没有爱的环境中成长,我想让我的孩子代替 Parenting not only makes us feel happy, but also an essential change in our relationship with the world, with others, and with ourselves. We are not just children’s guides. Children also change our perceptions, behaviors and feelings during our reciprocating life so that we can have doubts about what we are sure of. Sometimes, this makes us uncomfortable, but always helpful. Let us repeat the childhood child’s parents’ side of self mirror. It is in children, we find their own childhood injury. Anna, a 33-year-old working mom, thinks the child is her best therapist and raising her child is a long-term psychotherapy. ”I know why I want a child, I have a gray childhood, parents did not raise me, I grew up in a non-love environment, I want to let my child instead