家庭惩罚(包括体罚)是一个较为敏感的课题。不适当的惩罚可能潜伏更坏的后果,使孩子形成消极的对抗心理,反而不愿意改正错误。社会心理学的研究还表明,使用严厉惩罚的父母往往导致孩子具有很强的攻击性。这些攻击性通常发生在家庭之外,在那里,孩子远离了惩罚他的人。此外,严厉的家庭惩罚也容易使孩子脱离家庭的“引力场”,从而走上歧途,等等。 Family punishment (including corporal punishment) is a more sensitive subject. Inappropriate punishments may lurk even worse consequences, so that children form a negative antagonistic psychology, but do not want to correct mistakes. Studies in social psychology also show that parents who use harsh punishments often result in children being highly offensive. These offensive usually occur outside the home, where children are far from punishing him. In addition, harsh family penalties can easily lead children out of the “gravitational field” of their families and thus go astray.