晓云:很高兴有机会一起聊聊关于女性的话题。你曾说过,女人的成功,意味着她要放弃更多的爱。女人成就一番事亚,你以为难在何处?小斌:做自己想做的事,必须以放弃为前提。我觉得有取必有舍。什么都不愿意舍弃的人,到最后他肯定最想得到的东西也得不到。这方面我比较明白,我必须舍弃很多东西。比如金钱的诱惑,写一个电视剧,价格百倍高于小说,有时候我都动摇了,但我想来想去最后还是拒绝了,因为我对这个题材不感兴趣。晓云:除了写书,你还有什么愉悦自己的爱好?小斌:比如说画画。还有刻纸,我办过一个刻纸展览。刻纸就是用刀直接刻,不打草稿。我分了几类,有西方宗教故事,例如亚 Xiaoyun: Glad to have the opportunity to talk about women’s topics. You have said that a woman’s success means she has to give up more love. What do you think is hard to do when you are a woman? Xiaobin: Do what you want to do and you must give up as a prerequisite. I think there must be homes. He does not want to give up anything, and in the end he certainly can not get the most wanted things. I am more aware of this, I have to give up a lot of things. For example, the temptation of money, write a TV series, the price is hundred times higher than the novel, and sometimes I have shaken, but I wanted to go eventually refused, because I am not interested in this theme. Xiaoyun: In addition to writing a book, what else do you enjoy your hobbies? Xiaobin: for example, painting. There are carved paper, I have done a carved paper exhibition. Engraved paper is a knife directly engraved, do not play draft. I am divided into several categories, there are Western religious stories, such as Asia