邻家的小孩,在光天化日下,冲着人们撒尿,大人乐哈哈。这种行为对孩子的成长极为不利。这是孩子缺少羞恶之心的表现。 一个人在成长过程中,总要面对生活中各种各样的事物,免不了对这些事物作出评价或情感倾向,这种评价或倾向往往是随着一个人的羞恶观转移的。羞恶观本身具有鲜明的时代性,它受到社会认可的行为规范所制约。古人云:羞恶之心谓之“义”,又将义和仁礼智信放在一起,成为约束人 Neighboring children, in broad daylight, directed at people pee, adults ha ha ha. This behavior is extremely detrimental to the growth of children. This is a manifestation of the child’s lack of shame. A person in the process of growing up, always have to face a variety of things in life, inevitably make the evaluation of these things or emotional bias, such evaluation or tendency is often shifted with the shame of a person. The concept of shame itself has a distinctive age, it is subject to social norms of behavior constraints. The ancients said: shame of the heart of the “righteousness”, but also the righteousness and benevolence wisdom together as a restraining person