某日,我收到一封信,一位名叫钟维权(为保护当事人的隐私,本文全用化名)的读者在信中讲述了他的生活情况。和我以往接到的来信最大的区别是,以前都是父母来信诉说对子女教育的困惑,而这次,钟维权在信中历数其父的种种令人不解的言行。他说:“在我童年的记忆中,父亲是个快乐而可亲的人,但随着我们一天天长大,父亲变得令人不解而可怕 One day, I received a letter from a reader named Zhong Weiguan (in order to protect the privacy of the parties, the full name of the article) in his letter about his life. The biggest difference from the letters I received in the past is that in the past all parents were confronted by letter letters about their children’s education. This time, Zhong Weiquan wrote his father’s inexplicable deeds in his letter. He said: "In my childhood memory, my father was a happy and dear person, but as we grow older, his father became puzzled and scary