楔子:从《论语》说起在《论语》中,孔子的一位名叫陈亢的弟子和孔子的儿子孔鲤有过一段非常著名的对话,大意是陈亢想从孔鲤的口中知道老师是否给自己的儿子开小灶,结果“问一得三”;不仅明白了“诗”和“礼”,还明白了“君子不偏私”的道理。据说后世文人家中厅堂里挂的“诗礼传家”的匾额即源于此。 Wedge: Speaking from the Analects, in the Analects of Confucius, one of Confucius’s disciple named Chen Kang and his son Kong Lei had a very famous dialogue, which meant that Chen Kang wanted to know the teacher from the mouth of the carp Whether to give his own son a special treatment, the result of “one to ask three”; not only understand the “poem” and “ceremony”, but also understand the “gentleman does not bias” truth. It is said that later generations of literati in the hall linked to the “poetry ceremony” the plaque that stems from this.