在心理咨询中,许多家长埋怨孩子做了某些不该做的事,没有把精力用在学习上。这不禁引起笔者的思索:哪些事情孩子不该做呢?为什么孩子出现这个问题?究竟是孩子的问题,还是家长的问题? 有一位初中三年级男孩的母亲告诉我,她的孩子经常惹老师生气,因为他做数学题和写作文时,经常不按老师的要求去做。有时题目做对了,老师却要扣分,他非常不服气…… In counseling, many parents complain that their children do something they should not do and do not concentrate on their studies. This can not help but give rise to the author’s ponder: What should children do? Why do children have this problem? Is it a child’s problem or a parent’s problem? A mother of a junior third-year boy told me that her children often make teachers angry Because he did math problems and writing essay, he often did not do what the teacher required. Sometimes the subject is right, but the teacher has to point, he is very unconvinced ...