亲子之间的沟通问题,无论是对中学生,还是对家长来说,都是一个令人苦恼的问题。在日常生活中常听到一些家长抱怨:“孩子小时候活泼可爱又听话,现在长大了,我们的话听不进去了,你还没讲几句,他(她)就烦了,他们有什么事也不想让我们插手,但他们毕竟是孩子,我们怎么能不管呢?”孩子也会带着怨气说道:“父母太唠叨了,同样的话会说好几遍,什么事都想问、都想管,我们已经不是小孩子了,你们能不能少烦啊!”那么,孩子与父母间冲突与 Communication between parents and children, both for secondary school students, or parents, is a distressing problem. In daily life, I often hear some parents complain: “Children are lovely and obedient when they were young. Now they grow up, and our words can not be heard. You have not spoken a few words yet. Do not want us to intervene, but they are children, after all, how can we ignore it? ”The child will be with grudges and said:“ The parents nagging, the same words would say several times, everything to ask, want to control, We are no longer children, can you be less annoying! ”So, the conflict between children and their parents and