:《爱孩子的人》是澳大利亚女作家克里斯蒂娜·斯泰德的代表作 ,具有很强的自传性。本文通过对《爱孩子的人》中主要人物的分析 ,提出书中Pollit一家实际上是一般现代家庭的缩影 ,一家人的矛盾在于人人都以自我为中心。本文反映了作者对现代物质社会里人的异化对家庭和婚姻关系的影响的思考。 : “People who love children” is the representative of Australian woman writer Christine Stead, has a strong autobiographical nature. Through the analysis of the main characters in “Children Who Love”, this paper presents a microcosm of the book Pollit, which is actually a general modern family. The contradiction of one family is that everyone is self-centered. This article reflects the author’s consideration of the influence of human alienation on family and marriage in modern material society.