引子我和艾舍于九零年相识,终于决定结婚,已是两年后的事了。我们选了一家中国素菜馆举办婚礼。老板是个台湾女人,四五十岁的样子。跟我们讨论菜式、价钱和其他具体安排时,冷冷淡淡的,没有一般生意人的热情。她的女儿是饭馆的副手,一个混血儿,性格和母亲的截然不同,明快外向,说笑个不停。母女俩对我们很关照, Yin and I cherish I met in 1990, and finally decided to get married, it is two years later. We chose a Chinese vegetarian restaurant for weddings. The boss is a Taiwanese woman, four or five years old look. When discussing dishes, prices and other specific arrangements with us, it is cold and light, and there is no enthusiasm from the average businessman. Her daughter is the deputy of the restaurant, a half-breed, a very different personality and mother, outgoing, joking. Mother and daughter are very concerned about us,