一个很能干,经常领到公司奖金的员工,未必能让同事们心服口服;一个成绩优秀,备受老师赞赏的学生,平时往往形单影只,没有谁愿意跟他多说一句话。嫉妒是一种常见的心理现象,人们往往劝那些眼红的平凡人要放宽心,却忽视了那些好于表现、光彩照人的天才们。按照常理,当一个天才出现在平凡人面前,平凡人可能真心地欣赏他,发现他的优点;可能心存芥蒂,敬而远之;还可能心中不服,不时地骚扰他,控制他,甚至散布一些流言飞语。所以,我们可以相信自己是个天才,但不要总是乐于表现,招致别人的嫉妒。 A very able and often received bonus company employees, may not be able to make colleagues convinced; a good performance, much appreciated by teachers, usually single-minded, no one would like to say a word with him. Jealousy is a common psychological phenomenon, people often advise those ordinary people to jealousy to relax, but overlooked those who better than performance, brilliant genius. According to common sense, when a genius appears in front of ordinary people, ordinary people may sincerely appreciate him and discover his merits; he may feel bewildered and stay away from him; he may also be unconvinced from time to time to harass him, control him or even spread some rumor language. Therefore, we can believe that we are a genius, but do not always be happy to show others’ jealousy.