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从专业的角度来看,小娟的意见的确没有错,但是从提意见的方式来看,小娟就错了。当着办公室全体人员的面用这么肯定的语气说主任错了,主任心里会是什么感受?每个人都有自尊心,都爱面子,说话直来直去很容易伤害对方的自尊心。对方的自尊心一旦受到伤害,轻则拒绝继续沟通,重则导致双方交恶。一些年轻秘书总是强调直来直去是自己的性格,而且认为这是为人正直的表现。其实,为人正直和说话直接是两个不同的概念。为人正
From a professional point of view, Xiaojuan’s opinion is not wrong, but from the way of opinion, Xiaojuan is wrong. In the presence of all the staff in the office, I said in such affirmative tone that the director was wrong, and what the feelings of the director would feel? Everyone has self-esteem, loves face, and straightforwardness of speech can easily hurt each other’s self-esteem. Once the other’s self-esteem hurt, ranging from refusing to continue to communicate, but also lead to both evil. Some young secretaries always emphasize that going right and straight is their own character, and think it is a manifestation of integrity. In fact, being honest and talking directly involves two different concepts. People are positive