我的父亲死于脑瘤已是4年半前的事情了。但如今和我88岁的母亲谈起失去我父亲这个事情时,我很惊讶地发现,她还在怀疑自己:“你大概以为我早就看开了吧?”她谈起失去她共度几乎60年生命的丈夫时,依然沉浸在痛苦中:“已经4年多了,但我还是很难过。”我不知道我成为精神科医生的动机,是否缘于我母亲在我小的时候就喜欢这么讲话,或者是因为现在我是个精神科医生了,她才这么跟我交谈。 It was four and a half years since my father died of a brain tumor. But now when I talk about my loss of my father to my 88-year-old mother, I was surprised to find that she was still doubting myself: “You probably thought I’d already looked at it already.” “She talked about losing her degree I’ve been in pain for more than 60 years: ”It’s been more than four years, but I’m still upset.“ ”I do not know if I became a psychiatrist’s motivator or not because of my mother’s presence in my small When I like to talk like that, or because I’m a psychiatrist now, she just talked to me.