做为一名教育心理科研工作者,为了研究单亲家庭子女教育问题,笔者逐个拜访了50多位单亲家庭的父亲或母亲。其中给笔者印象最深的是单亲家庭中两代人的“连锁”心态,即在单亲家庭中家长的心态对子女的影响,竟是那样的强烈和深刻。下面的事例可以说明,它的确是决定单亲家庭教育成败的关键因素。 As an educational psychology researcher, in order to study the education of single-parent family children, the author visited the father or mother of more than 50 single-parent families on a case-by-case basis. What impressed the author most is the “chain” mentality of two generations of single-parent families, that is, the influence of parents’ mentality on children in single-parent families is so intense and profound. The following example shows that it is indeed a key factor that determines the success or failure of single parent education.